It just so happened that you had sex right away on the first date. Perhaps then you experienced complex feelings and emotions, pondering what happened. Compare the obvious pros and cons of sex on the first date and draw your own conclusions for yourself.
The pros of having sex on a first date
- Perhaps you received extraordinary pleasure from an outburst of unbridled passion, experienced an incredible explosion of emotions with a new partner. Even if the relationship does not work out in the future, this sex can remain a vivid adventure in memory.
- You were able to make sure without unnecessary loss of time whether close communication with this person is pleasant to you and whether a partner is suitable for you in sex or not.
- If you are lucky enough to have a skilled and gentle partner and sex on your first date was amazing, your self-esteem can skyrocket, especially if you have had sexual failures before.
- No matter what happens next, you have gained life experience that will help you later avoid mistakes in communication with the opposite sex.
Cons of sex on the first date
- The most beautiful and amazing period of flirting between a man and a woman, courtship, the ancient game of seduction, the gradual recognition of each other and rapprochement, ended abruptly, without really starting.
- After the first sex, the relationship can immediately end if interest in an easily accessible partner is lost, especially if, apart from sex, the partners did not connect anything.
- It will be difficult to trust a person in the future who easily agreed to have sex on the first date. It may well be that a long and pleasant romance awaits you later, but a tinge of mistrust will still remain.
- Since there was practically no time to establish a spiritual connection, you may be disappointed with the first sexual intercourse. You can also be hurt by your partner's indifferent or inappropriate behavior after sex. It's bad if you feel empty, or worse, used up.
