You want to be with your loved one every moment, look into his eyes, hear the sound of his voice, feel the heartbeat. However, it often happens that people who love each other are separated by large distances for several weeks, months or even years. You have to think about whether it is possible in such a case to keep your love.
The fact that love at a distance really exists is evidenced by the correspondence between great people. Among them are the great French novelist Honore de Balzac and his beloved Evelina Ganskaya, the famous English playwright George Bernard Shaw and the brilliant actress Stella Patrick Campbell, the great Russian poets Marina Ivanovna Tsvetaeva and Boris Leonidovich Pasternak. There are many other examples as well.
Love and modern technology
Today, modern technologies come to the rescue of lovers. They can correspond on social networks, exchange gentle SMS messages, talk for hours on a mobile phone. If you live without seeing each other, it becomes already impossible, a fast plane will transfer you to your beloved in a short time.
Sometimes love arises from a distance from the very beginning. People get to know each other on the Internet, plunge headlong into romance, think that they have managed to find their ideal. However, in such a relationship, there is a danger of mistaking for true love only the dream of it. In addition, on the Internet, people often pretend to be not who they really are. As a result, meeting in real life can only bring bitter disappointment. There is also a risk of becoming a victim of a maniac or a marriage swindler.
However, there can be benefits to love at a distance. If a person is lonely and not sure of himself, even virtual relationships will become for him salvation from emptiness and loneliness, a source of positive emotions. The main thing is not to play too much and not to confuse the real world with the invented one.
Love and separation
If feelings arise in real life, and people truly love each other, a long separation turns into a difficult test for them. In addition, uninvited thoughts about the possible betrayal of a loved one begin to come to mind. There is no need to torment your chosen one with constant checks: often distrust kills even the strongest love. However, leaving your loved one completely unattended is also not worth it. You can always find a way of communication that will become convenient and comfortable for both. True love is not afraid of any obstacles and distances. Separation can even strengthen her, making her appreciate every moment she spends with her loved one. The main thing is that it does not drag on for many years. After all, the habit of constantly being at a distance from each other can cool even the strongest and most sincere feelings.
