Perhaps you have offended a loved one without noticing it yourself, and as a result of this mistake, relations that are very important to you have deteriorated. Or you simply did not understand each other, and the young man left you disappointed. You just need to talk heart to heart to eliminate all misunderstandings, but the guy does not want to date …
Instructions
Step 1
Try to assess the character of the guy as accurately as possible and act based on this assessment.
Imagine what would happen if you simply and without fuss invite him to meet:
Step 2
- if the guy is polite, he will agree. Then your task is to hold the meeting in such a way that he does not regret the time spent. Do not forget that the guy must understand how wonderful you are;
Step 3
- he may ask: "Why?" Come up with an excuse to make him want to come. You can hint at sex, and then you are more likely to get consent. But you will have to try very hard so that after such a beginning, the relationship becomes long and serious. Try to master Thai massage and memorize "Kama Sutra" - these skills can become serious arguments in favor of continuing the relationship;
Step 4
- a guy can refuse to meet without any explanation.
If the second option does not suit you, think about what might interest the object of your attention.
Step 5
Perhaps he is a fan of rock music. Try to get tickets for a concert of an interesting band and casually inform him that you happen to have an extra ticket because a friend is sick and cannot go. If the guy is fond of sports, invite him to go to a match together, etc. - understand where the guy wants to go and go there together.
Step 6
You can ask the guy for help - for example, tell them that your computer has broken down or your car won't start. If the guy is not inclined to provide disinterested services, hint at a fee. Try to show off the talents of the hostess so that he does not regret the time spent.
Step 7
If a guy has a blog or a page on social networks, go there incognito and establish a correspondence with him as a mysterious stranger. If the young person has good reasons not to meet with you - for example, you have offended him - do not repeat this mistake in the correspondence. Try to avoid spelling mistakes and vulgar expressions to look like a real princess. If you can get the guy interested, set him up on a date in real life. When you meet, smile and offer to meet again, for real.
