Every woman strives to be attractive to the opposite sex. Often times, men really do circle around her. But what are their true intentions? If the plans of men were easy to recognize, then women would not have to pour out their souls to their friends so often, be indignant that another gentleman turned out to be a crook, and generally get upset. A man can be figured out at the beginning of a relationship by paying attention to the signs and giving importance to the symptoms.
It is necessary
The experience of communicating with different people, the ability to observe and listen, the desire to analyze the behavior of men
Instructions
Step 1
Be attentive to the man next to you from the very beginning of the relationship. There are no small things, and it is important to consider everything. Of course, you can enjoy the ease - they say, let everything go as it goes. But then be ready to take the result just as easily - it didn't work out, they scattered, turned out to be unworthy, and after all, a lot of time has already been lost.
At the beginning of a relationship, when you first started dating, pay attention to how your boyfriend manifests himself at a distance. Surely he was the initiator of the acquaintance - he should have somehow made it clear that he was not indifferent to you? But what is happening now? Who calls first - him or you? Don't count the number of calls, just note the trend. Does he dial your number once a day or once a week? And if you are bored, call him and bump into an answering machine, does he call back? If you have to call him a second time, this is a reason to be wary: your boyfriend does not seem to feel a lack of communication with you.
Step 2
At the stage when you meet regularly, pay attention to the following little things: whether a door is opened in front of you, whether a coat is being given, a hand when exiting a bus or car. However, if everything is in order, this only indicates that the man has a certain upbringing. If the gentleman does not show politeness, try to track down those manifestations that compensate for this lack. For example, he is not too gallant, but he does not allow you to pay for yourself in a cinema, cafe, museum. From time to time, a man who wants to please his girlfriend gives her small gifts. These will not necessarily be diamonds, the main thing here is attention. If no surprises are given to you, this is another reason to think. Perhaps the man is not interested in you. According to the status, it is supposed to have a girl with whom you can appear in a company or in a theater, but what kind of person she is - he is not interested.
Step 3
The next stage of bonding adds to your understanding of whether this man is worth your time and effort. For example, he paid for you everywhere on the first date. But now every now and then he strives to ask for one hundred rubles for the phone, then buy tickets to the cinema (he’s so late!). If his solvency has completely dried up, if a young man is trying to "leave at your expense" in any situation, then before you is a gigolo. Whether it is worth contacting gigolos, even if they are courteous in communication, is up to you.
A man to whom you are sincerely attractive will certainly be interested in your affairs. The care from a loving man is manifested in everything. It is important for him what you had for breakfast, whether it was warm or comfortable for you. When going to the store together, such a man will not allow you to carry heavy bags. At an evening meeting, he speaks not only about himself, his beloved, but also asks you how the day went.
If all these signs of care and interest are not there, if a man only demonstrates good manners and a willingness to ask you out, it is possible that his plans do not go further than bed. And in this case, only you can decide whether it is worth wasting time on a one-off relationship.
