Peace in the family depends not only on how much a husband and wife love each other, but also on how they are brought up and what their temperaments are. In some families, noisy showdown with shouting and swearing is a common thing, which badly affects the atmosphere in the house, from which both parents and children suffer. In any difficult family situation, you can solve the matter peacefully, without creating a scandal.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to prevent a scandal if you see that the situation between you and your husband is heating up, but the matter has not yet reached the point of screaming. Sometimes it's smarter to give in and keep quiet, waiting until you and your spouse calm down. And only then proceed to a reasonable and deliberate conversation.
Step 2
Remember that you are living in a civilized society. It's ugly when your floor neighbors hear your abuse. The scenes of family showdowns in front of children also look ugly. The child's psyche is weak and unbalanced. Quarrels between parents can damage his moral health.
Step 3
To get rid of the habit of making scandals without a serious reason, come up with punishments for this with your husband: you could not resist - you do a general cleaning of the house, he became the initiator - he cooks dinner and washes the dishes for a week. Punishment must be adamant, palpable, and carried out without indulgence.
Step 4
Set a positive example for your children as they adopt the parenting behavior. Observing the aggressive attitude of the mother and father towards each other, the child will begin to use aggression towards peers.
Step 5
Learn to control yourself. Violent negative feelings or accumulated negative emotions lead to a scandal. Know how to restrain yourself, be above the showdown in a raised voice. Imagine what your family quarrel looks like from the outside. Surely not very pretty.
Step 6
If you are in a bad mood and feel that you are ready at any time to start screaming and showdown, do some business or take a walk. A bad mood is not a reason to find fault with others.
Step 7
Understand the causes of the scandals with your husband. If you have a fight over money, try rescheduling your family budget. If jealousy is the cause of the quarrels, then learn to trust each other. Any reason for a scandal can be resolved peacefully if you try to do it together, because, after all, you and your husband are one.
