Any family life begins with love and care, the spouses experience endless tenderness and try to please each other in everything. But time passes, and life together ceases to be as rosy as in the very beginning. According to psychologists, even in ideal marriages, quarrels occur, and everyone knows what they are fraught with.
Let's try to figure out how to behave if a quarrel still cannot be avoided. The first and probably the easiest way is to translate an offensive statement into a joke. Basically, it is applicable at the initial stage of a dispute. The second way is to stop in time and tell your other half that you do not want to continue the argument. Well, the third and most difficult way is to take the first step towards reconciliation. One of the important conditions is not only the ability to take the first step, but also to evaluate it.
Make it a rule for yourself, before you say something offensive, just count to ten in your mind, or speak in a whisper instead of shouting. And quarrels in raised tones rarely lead to a positive result.
In addition, it is not worth discussing all the accumulated problems in one conflict, this is a priori a dead-end path. It is better to focus on the one that worries you the most at the moment and jointly look for a way out of this situation.
In order to live in love and harmony, try to follow the above rules, and also remember that respect, attention, compliance and care for each other will help preserve the family hearth for many years, and if there is a quarrel, then do not be afraid to take the first step towards, even if it is very difficult to do it.
