In the heat of a quarrel, you can say a lot of unnecessary words and offend a loved one. Both partners are guilty, but if you are sure that this time it is not your fault, try to convey to your young man exactly what he was wrong about.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not be offended in silence. Indeed, sometimes silence can say a lot, but if you see that this does not affect your boyfriend in any way, do not remain silent for a long time. Look for other ways to convey his guilt to him. Try to talk to him. You should not start a new quarrel, try to convey your thoughts gently and calmly. Explain to your partner exactly what he was wrong about.
Step 2
Analyze your fight. Remember every spoken word addressed to each other. If you want to make a guy understand his guilt, it's not enough just to say that he offended you with his words or actions. In a calm atmosphere, remind him of them and ask how he would react to such actions and words in his address. Do not go to shout, do not read out arguments point by point, because you are not on trial.
Step 3
Wait a while after the fight. You don't need to start to sort things out right after her, you both need some time to cool down and calm down. You can say the most correct words only in a calm state, when the resentment and anger subside.
Step 4
In order for your boyfriend to understand you better, you should not focus only on yourself. Tell him that you understand that it is also difficult and unpleasant for him. Take your pride away and apologize for the wrongs you have inflicted on him in the past. So he will see that your feelings are more important to you than pride, and he will also meet halfway. Do not forget that a man is very proud by nature, and if he sincerely apologizes, it means that he really cares about you.
Step 5
Learn to calmly discuss all relationship problems. If you are near, then you are not strangers to each other, and common problems need to be solved together. To overcome difficulties together, you need to look for their causes and solutions together. Do not place this responsibility on someone else. Relationships really need work, and if you both have such a desire, then you will succeed.
