Unfortunately, the years of marriage do not always contribute to the strengthening of love in him, but on the contrary, love gradually cools down, and after a while it disappears altogether. Some see a way out of this situation in divorce, while others are trying with all their might to save their union.
Of course, if the marriage was concluded by convenience, then what kind of love can we talk about? If you want to develop it, then this will take time and the mutual desire of the spouses. And if there was love, but after a while you feel that your husband began to show less attention to you, later come home from work, not respond to your needs - in a word, his love for you has cooled, then you need to act, but choosing the right tactics and be patient Physical contact In the hustle and bustle of life, few people manage to maintain a romantic-tender relationship. But people need them. Even if it seems that your husband does not care about such trifles, try to implement them anyway. Hug him often, kiss him in gratitude, touch him with a sense of care. Do it gently and tactfully and over time it will cause a response. Gifts If it is not customary in your family to give gifts for no reason, then start by giving exactly what your life partner wants to have, not it seems) necessary. Hand it over with love and pay attention to the fact that it was acquired with love. And over time, sometimes begin to give spontaneous little things that testify to your care. Helping with it This is not about mutual benefit or self-interest. On the contrary, do what the husband asks or what he does not have time for. After all, he takes care of you financially, and you can respond in kind, but spending your personal time on it. Never show that this is difficult for you. Believe me, when you need help, your husband will gladly provide it. Asking for forgiveness Because of the constant presence under the same roof, husband and wife can get used to each other so much that they stop apologizing for their mistakes, considering their presence normal and acceptable. But it doesn't have to be that way. Even if it seems to you that the spouse does not pay attention to it, in fact, resentment accumulates in the heart and drowns out love. It is especially wrong to criticize your husband's new ideas - even if they are not to your liking, gently help him understand his point of view. Such a respectful attitude cannot go unnoticed by a man.
