Any girl dreams of a faithful and reliable partner, but sometimes a man does not live up to expectations and begins to cheat. What should a woman who is faced with infidelity do and wants to return a man, no matter what? If you are confident that you do not want to start a new life and want to continue your previous relationship, you need to understand what exactly drives your desire to return your partner to the family.
Instructions
Step 1
If the source of this desire is the desire to take revenge on an unknown rival, you can ruin the life of both yourself and your man. No relationship can be built on revenge, negativity, and pride. Therefore, you can return a man only when your desire is based on sincere feelings that you do not want to lose.
Step 2
Understand what caused the man to leave for another woman - the reason could be his love for her, but also the reason may lie in your behavior and your shortcomings. Think about what a man might be missing in your relationship, and what he might be looking for in a relationship with another person.
Step 3
Think about whether you can sincerely forgive him for cheating and continue to build a relationship. This is possible only if you have something in common, if you have common topics of conversation, common interests and aspirations in life. Find something important and valuable that connects you and brings you back to the beginning of your romantic relationship.
Step 4
Restrain your emotions and try to think logically. Determine what the man's mistakes were and what your mistakes were. Try to correct your own shortcomings and draw conclusions so that the man no longer has a reason to leave you if this was the main reason. If the reason for the betrayal is solely in the frivolity and dishonesty of a man, do not hope to correct him - get rid of illusions and start a new life.
Step 5
Find a reason to make peace with your man. Let him understand that he is dear to you, and that with a new woman he will not find the virtues of life together that he has already received while living with you. Agree that you will be more attentive to each other, and be prepared for the fact that you will have to change yourself in some way.
Step 6
Be patient, don't be too intrusive. After a breakup, returning to your old relationship is usually gradual and difficult. The man must understand that he was forgiven and that he is still valuable to you. In conversations, try not to touch on unpleasant topics - do not discuss your rival and do not reproach a man for leaving.
Step 7
Be calm, independent, caring and confident - this will attract a man to you again.
