No matter how many words are said that all ages are submissive to love, all the same, for each person his situation is unique. The guy is younger than you and you are tormented by doubts whether you need to maintain such a relationship. Public opinion tells the girl to look for a partner older than herself, but the most important thing in this situation is your feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
Many psychologists are convinced that young people are more romantic. They have not yet lost their idealistic outlook on life and maximalism, they have not acquired the bitter experience of disappointment. Therefore, if your boyfriend is younger than you, he may be in a serious relationship for the first time, and he will treat you more carefully. Do not try to break the connection with him just because he is younger than you and does not have your experience. Maybe this is just his advantage.
Step 2
You are older - behave wisely and intelligently. Do not make him tantrums and scandals, do not be jealous. All this, in any case, does not strengthen the relationship and acts all the more destructively, the greater the age difference between the partners.
Step 3
When people enter a relationship, they change, influencing each other. The changes are especially strong for those who are younger, because with age, people acquire established habits and inclinations, begin to more consistently follow their rules, reluctantly changing their point of view. If your partner is younger than you, they will likely change more than you do. It can be said that it will "grow" in order to reach your level. It will be easier for you to influence him, which means that if your characters are similar; it can happen that your partner becomes truly who you need for a long-term, serious relationship. We are talking about small habits, a kind of "grinding" people to each other, but not about trying to change a person.
Step 4
Try to look good. If you are older, you need to take extra care of yourself. Most likely, you are already infected with the energy of youth from him, so there is very little left: sign up for a gym and sometimes visit a beauty salon. It is possible that, unlike his peers, you can afford to look more elegant, buy expensive beautiful lingerie and perfume.
Step 5
If acquaintances are slandering your couple, judging you, do not listen to their opinion. People tend to succumb to stereotypes, judging others and not realizing that it is much more important how you are doing with him. However, if your really good friends point out to you that a young man is treating you frivolously, consider if there is any truth in their words. Not always everything goes smoothly in couples, where partners differ greatly in age, and you should not turn a blind eye to this. You yourself must understand if there are serious feelings between you.
Step 6
It is possible that your partner also has some doubts about your union. Don't tell him that he is younger than you. On the contrary, it is better to let him know that, in spite of everything, it is very important for you to feel his strong man's shoulder next to him. Although usually men are much less worried about such a relationship.
