People's feelings do not depend on age. Despite the norms accepted in society, it happens that a woman develops love for a young man. In such a situation, she has a hard time.
Necessary
Self-confidence, patience, control of one's behavior and appearance
Instructions
Step 1
Let go of the inner barriers caused by the age difference and the age of your chosen one. They will get in your way and prevent you from focusing on the really important things. The less you think that you are older, the better.
Step 2
Try to get the young person's attention. At the same time, he should see you as an attractive woman, and not just a colleague, a neighbor or a friend of an older sister. Find a balance in your behavior. There is no need to strive for the frivolous flirtation that is inherent in adolescents. At the same time, do not pretend to be too strict.
Step 3
Take care of your appearance. Getting enough sleep will improve your complexion and overall well-being. Do not miss your visits to the beautician, massage therapist and hairdresser. Accentuate your natural beauty. Smile more. Your cheerfulness will help grab the young person's attention.
Step 4
Determine the main advantages of your figure. With the right clothing, focus on what you want to show. Redefine your wardrobe. Get rid of things that openly age you and indicate age. Do not go to extremes - you do not need to wear things that are acceptable only for young girls. Show your taste.
Step 5
Find out what the young man you like is passionate about. This will give you the opportunity not only to find a common topic of conversation, but also help you get to know him better. In the process of communication, your chosen one will also get to know you better. At the same time, there is no need to remind of the age difference. Communicate as if you were peers.
Step 6
Create a situation in which you will look your best. Show your best qualities. This can be the organization of an event, assistance in work, etc. Do not pay attention to possible attacks from others, do not allow yourself to be drawn into squabbles and scandals. This will show others your confidence.
Step 7
Show by your behavior that the young man you are interested in is a real man. Thank him for his actions, making it clear that without his help it would be very difficult for you to cope with this or that problem. Such situations of success will help the young person feel his strength and give confidence in his behavior.
Step 8
Show your concern for him. Do this in a subtle and timely manner. Show your experience in everyday situations without belittling the dignity of the young person. Let him know that you need his attention. Let him see an experienced woman who needs his help and affection.
