Men and women are literally different in everything. That is why the signs of attention that a young man shows to a girl may be pleasant for her, but incomprehensible. Although for any guy they are as obvious as two and two! And such a girl suffers from doubts: "Do he like me?" And the guy, afraid to seem annoying and tactless, does not rush her and patiently waits for him to be appreciated, when she will understand what feelings I am testifying to signs of attention. In order to watch out for the good guy, there are some simple things that girls need to keep in mind.
Instructions
Step 1
Friendship between different sexes is, of course, possible, but sooner or later, it either moves to a higher level, or quietly fades away. Because the laws of nature cannot be canceled. If you want to consider your friend a boy who has been persistently looking for your company for a long time, who is always happy to support, help with deeds, or advice - well, consider it. But no matter how later I had to regret: “I missed it! Where did I just look? Where were my eyes? From this we can conclude: take a closer look at your friend.
Step 2
Remember firmly: just a friend in 99% of cases is in love with his naive “just a friend”! And she just can't understand why such a simple truth does not reach her. Don't expect a guy to say clearly and unambiguously, "I love you!" Of course, there are such young people, and there are not so few of them. But there are enough shy, vulnerable, with a delicate, sensitive nature. They are simply afraid of being rejected because it will be too difficult for them.
Step 3
In addition, it is quite possible that such a guy has already tried to "convey" his feelings to you, and you did not even notice it, or you misunderstood him. After all, men and women have completely different psychologies! They look at the same thing differently. And now the guy does not dare to speak openly.
Step 4
If a young man tries to accompany you everywhere, often calls you, gets nervous when you communicate with other young people, we can say with confidence that he is not indifferent to you.
Step 5
Remember the wise rule: "One time is an accident, two is a pattern, three is a system." If a guy every now and then tries to catch your eye, while pretending (as a rule, very clumsily, awkwardly) that this meeting happened completely by accident. Well, here you really have to be an extremely slow-witted girl, so as not to draw the only possible conclusion: he likes you!
Step 6
And, finally, a completely unmistakable indicator - if a guy resignedly endures your mood swings, jokes, "jokes", sometimes very sharp. Remember: he allows this only to a girl who is truly dear to him!
Step 7
Well, if you doubt your suspicions, you can ask your mutual friend or acquaintance to ask him about his attitude towards you. Perhaps he will open, but keep in mind that the person should be close to him.