Sometimes shyness and indecision can drastically change a person's life if it gets in the way of saying something at the right moment. She especially binds guys at the sight of an attractive stranger who grabs the soul, but with whom it is so scary to talk.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze the situation. This must be done quickly, assessing the situation. After all, it is not always a matter of lack of courage - maybe now is not the time or place to meet. But you can understand this if you find yourself directly in such a situation.
Step 2
Assess your appearance. When you meet, one glance is enough to understand whether it should be continued or whether it is better to turn around right now and go in the opposite direction. Therefore, if you are not sure that you look amazing, maybe you should postpone the acquaintance for a more convenient opportunity, because there may not be a second chance.
Step 3
Think about what to say. In order not to hesitate, not to look stupid and funny, try to imagine at least roughly what you can say so that the acquaintance starts and continues.
Step 4
Don't forget about humor. Many girls appreciate this feeling in guys, besides, it will help defuse the situation and contribute to a warm acquaintance. But remember that humor should not be excessive, not vulgar or intrusive.
Step 5
Keep your distance. Remember the elementary rules of etiquette: speak respectfully, do not come or sit so close that the girl will be embarrassed or forced to reprimand you, do not ignore her interests (if she is listening to music, reading a book or talking to someone, then apologize for that that you distract her and only after that talk about what you planned), do not intrude if the girl made it clear that she does not want to get acquainted.
Step 6
Compliment. Let them be sincere and honest. Perhaps she will not react to the words that her eyes sparkle like diamonds, but will appreciate the fact that you notice the warmth of her smile or gentle tone of voice.
Step 7
Help the girl. If she is carrying a heavy bag or is uncomfortable walking on a slippery road, focus on helping her rather than getting to know her as soon as possible. She will appreciate your actions more than words and compliments.
Step 8
Be bold. Don't let shyness take away your chance to meet the girl who has hooked your heart. If the situation and circumstances are conducive to acquaintance, then there is no need to wait for a happier chance.
