Do not be fooled into thinking that your little one will get used to the nanny in 2-3 days. Depending on the nature of the baby, his age and the nanny herself, the process can take several weeks or even months. Try to accustom the child gradually, and then you can avoid daily tears and tantrums when parting with him.
Instructions
Step 1
Invite your nanny to your home to meet your child. Don't worry if your toddler doesn't want to make contact. A good nanny herself should try to interest the ward in the game or communication. After 3-4 daily visits of the nanny to your home, leave the child alone with her, as if by accident, leaving in the next room, and monitor the child's reaction. If the baby did not start looking for his mother right away, but continued to play and communicate, after 1-2 days try to go to the store for 15-20 minutes “for bread”. Go out for a walk with the nanny every day, the child should get used to her constant presence. After about a week, send the baby for a walk with the nanny, and you yourself stay at home and wait for them to return.
Step 2
Most likely, at first, the child will be capricious or even cry, worrying about the fact that mom is not around. Pay attention to the baby's reaction when the nanny arrives, unwillingness to be alone with her most often indicates that the baby is not yet ready for a long separation from his mother, or that she does not treat him very well. If you are in doubt about the nanny, install bugs or video cameras in order to confirm or deny your suspicions.
Step 3
If the reaction to your short absence from home is normal - the child will not cry at all or will cry for a short time and quickly calm down - start every day add an hour to the intervals of your absence. If the child, while you are not at home, throws tantrums and sobs, slow down the habituation process a little, shorten the duration of your absences for a short time, or give them up completely for several days.
