“Love is blind” is not an old saying, but a bitter truth, which for millennia has been consoled by those who learn about betrayal by the latter. Wives, husbands, girlfriends and companions ask themselves - how could I not notice that he / she is cheating on me? Do we always know where to look? What to look for? What actions should make us wary and stop being so in love, and therefore so naive?
Instructions
Step 1
Is your partner talking on the phone longer than usual? When he takes his cell phone, does he have business outside the room where you are all the time? He looks at the ringing phone, sees who is calling, but does not pick up the phone, but transfers to voicemail? Has he started carrying his cell phone with him everywhere, including the bathroom? If this behavior is repeated more and more often, it is worth “taking off your rose-colored glasses” and taking a closer look at your partner.
Step 2
Pay attention to how your satellite uses the Internet. Does it wait until you go to bed to sit at the computer, does the laptop take you to another room, does it close the browser when you enter the room? It's up to you to decide if you should check his email and website history, or if you want to be “above it” even if he is hiding something from you.
Step 3
Many argue that cheating will always make itself felt in the cooling of sexual relations. The cheater will allegedly avoid contacts of this kind. But here's the thing - deceivers who want to hide their "march to the left" are well aware of this popular "omen" and sometimes with redoubled fervor go to bed with you in order to avoid all sorts of suspicions and accusations. Also, do not discount the fact that in a new romance on the side of your partner, new sexual appetites, habits and fantasies may appear. Perhaps they can’t wait for a date with their passion and therefore realize their desires with you?
Step 4
Has your partner become more picky about his appearance? Men want to look more energetic, women start dressing sexier. Usually indifferent to the issues of weight, appearance, hairstyle, fragrances, the partner suddenly began to pay a lot of attention to this? If at the same time he is not very interested in whether you like these changes, most likely it is done for someone else.
Step 5
Pay attention to how your partner spends money. If he suddenly began to lose large sums somewhere, and he cannot explain to you what they are going to, maybe it makes sense to look into his finances? Pay attention to the checks in his pockets, if you can, look at the printout from his bank card. Restaurant bills you haven't been to, flowers and jewelry you haven't received, sexy lingerie you haven't seen wearing it - what other proof do you need to know you're being tricked?
Step 6
If suddenly your partner's co-workers or friends begin to feel uncomfortable in your presence, look away, look at you with pity, in a conversation they clearly stumble and ponder what has been said, does this mean that they know something about your life that is not do you know?
Step 7
Your partner suddenly became capricious, his mood changes dramatically, he became more aggressive in conversation with you, often asks you questions in different forms - what do you think about non-monogamous marriages? Are you really sure you can carry love to one person throughout your life? Are you happy with him? These may not be signs of betrayal, but they are signals that something is seriously wrong in your relationship.
Step 8
Your companion has new interests and tastes that seem completely alien to you. Has he become interested in ballroom dancing? Is she addicted to chess? He began to believe that women should not paint their lips? Does she say that a self-respecting man should spend two hours every day at the gym? Why do you think it would be?
Step 9
He's just nagging! Yesterday he was satisfied with how you dress, cook, kiss, what do you think about the situation in Pakistan and what films you watch and read, but today you cannot please him. It may well be that your companion is simply looking for an excuse to break off relations with you so as not to feel guilty about cheating.
