The children's team is not only games and joint activities. Unfortunately, conflicts there, too, can not be avoided. Moreover, both between children and between adults. The task of parents is to get around all sharp corners without injuring the child's psyche.
Instructions
Step 1
The most difficult conflict is a misunderstanding between parents and caregiver. It is for this reason that one should choose not a kindergarten, but an educator. After all, your baby will spend several hours with him every day and it is very important that contact is established between them.
Step 2
Be polite and friendly with the kindergarten staff. Do not think of them as service personnel who have to fulfill your child's whims. Teach your child to respect the caregivers and nanny. Never discuss their actions in a negative way in front of a child. In any controversial situation, listen to all parties. Bring in witnesses to the conflict. See a staff psychologist.
Step 3
There are things that a caregiver is not allowed to do. He cannot yell at the child (just yell, and not just raise his voice). Beat! This is generally prohibited. You cannot punish a child by locking him up alone, depriving him of food or sleep. Force-feed (if you haven't discussed it). If such cases, even isolated ones, were, immediately go to the head of the kindergarten and write a statement. In no case should such conflicts be hushed up. If such "educational" measures by the staff continue, you have the right to write an application to the Department of Education of your city. And a special commission will deal with this situation.
Step 4
But there is an even more difficult situation - a conflict with other parents. Most often it arises from quarrels and fights between children. Remember the main rule - no showdown with someone else's child. You have the right to communicate only with the provider and his / her parents about this matter. And the other side also has no right to comment on your child. First, sort out what happened with the teacher. Listen to your child's version (if age allows). And only after that, communicate correctly with the parents of the other participant in the conflict.
Step 5
In a situation where one child terrorizes the whole group, it is better to unite with other parents and bring this issue up at a general meeting. If the situation occurs in a private kindergarten, such conflicts are perfectly resolved with the leadership. After all, it is easier and more profitable to remove one child from the group than to lose 10-15 children.
Step 6
But in ordinary gardens, they do not want to wash dirty linen in public. And if the child is really aggressive, beats, bites other children, parents may be asked to pick up the child from the garden, threatening the guardianship authorities. Yes, these are the current realities that employees of child care facilities must report all significant violations against children to the supervisory authorities.
