Surprisingly, the wife can directly influence the fate of her husband. In a relationship, you are a mirror of each other. As you will treat your husband, so he will treat you, so he will go and things.
If the wife does not trust her husband, no one will trust him: the authorities will not entrust an important project, the salary will not be raised. If a wife relies on her husband, she is sure that he is able to move mountains, then this really will be so. Nothing will support a man like the faith in him of a beloved woman.
If a woman does all the work herself, the man loses self-confidence and does not want to do anything at all.
If a woman does not reveal herself to her loved one, does not demonstrate her love to him, men stop giving gifts to the woman, paying attention.
If a woman respects her man, everyone around him respects him.
In a man, the qualities that his wife pays most attention to will develop most of all, so a woman should understand: if she keeps telling a man that he is lazy, then he will be so. If she constantly scolds him for his shortcomings, then they will not go anywhere.
A woman should remember that there are no ideal people, each person has his own good and bad qualities, so women and men should focus only on the good ones. There is always something to praise a man for, even if it is even a small trifle. Thus, you will awaken in him a sense of confidence.
Very often we see this: the man did not drink, did not work, was very lazy, but at some wonderful moment he changed and began to play sports, opened his own business. It also happens the other way around: a successful businessman, an athlete, suddenly began to drink, bad habits appeared. In fact, the whole point is not in the man himself, but in his wife.
In one case, the wife encouraged the man to feats, supported him, in the second, she deprived him of faith in himself. We deserve exactly the person we get as a spouse. If there is something you do not like your soul mate, then you should take a closer look at yourself. Perhaps the problem is with you. If you support your man, develop masculinity in him, then he will be the best for you in the whole world.
