The wedding took place, everyone is happy. But suddenly it turns out that the woman does not respect her husband at all, and before the wedding she was simply pretending. This shouldn't be! How can the situation be rectified?
Instructions
Step 1
You must not allow yourself to be neglected, otherwise you will remain henpecked for the rest of your life. Your wife will not appreciate you, no matter how hard you try.
Step 2
We need to figure out why this happened. What are the reasons for this behavior of your beloved woman. Maybe her family is the problem. Perhaps such a relationship is the norm with her parents. If a daughter watches her dad bend under her mom all the time, she takes such a relationship as a basis. And, of course, he will try to build his family in the same way. She just doesn't know how to do it differently. During the courtship period, such moments are almost impossible to predict. If a girl seeks to get married, she will pretend, try to do everything so that her beloved makes an offer. And only after the wedding, all the nuances will come out.
Step 3
Since you didn’t figure out your wife before the wedding, you will have to deal with her upbringing after the marriage. It will be necessary to explain that the main guarantee of family happiness is respect between spouses. It is necessary to bring to her consciousness that the wedding is not the end, that the whole life is ahead, and now you need to make every effort to make this life happy. Remember that if there is no respect between the spouses, the marriage is doomed.
Step 4
You shouldn't give your wife all your money. Many men do this in order to relieve themselves of responsibility in material matters of the family and in everyday aspects. But then you have to ask your wife for money for any little thing. Thus, the primacy in the family can go to the woman, because she is in charge of family finances. Even if you do not want to participate in the formation of the family budget, you should keep a certain amount with yourself so that you have money for small expenses.
Step 5
Don't let your wife raise her voice, call you names. Explain to her that this is absolutely unacceptable for you and that you will not live with a woman who allows such behavior.
Step 6
Some women lose a sense of respect for their husband when she discovers cheating. They try to create a halo of indifference around themselves, but, of course, they cannot forget about what happened. In order to regain lost respect, you need to make every effort. Surround her with attention and care and make her believe in your feelings for her again. Maybe then your betrayal will gradually begin to be forgotten.
