All of us have had to part with a loved one at least once in our lives, and if it was not you who initiated the breakup of love relationships, then it will be much harder to survive it.
Parting with a loved one is always very painful and scary. It is scary to give up joint plans, from the dream of a happy life with him. It seems that the whole world has collapsed around, and the sun will never again warm your heart. And nevertheless, life goes on and it is better to learn to enjoy this life again.
Step one: Remember your future.
Time really heals. The first thing to do when parting with a loved one is to ask yourself the question: will it be as meaningful for me after five years? Surely a few years ago you had problems that seemed insoluble to you, which, as you thought, you would never be able to cope with. And nevertheless, most of them seem to you today to be nonsense or just your life experience, for which you are grateful to fate. You did it, you got over it, you did it - and now they mean nothing to you. So will it be just as painful for you to leave your loved one after five years? Wouldn't it be a completely different life?
Step two: Burn off.
It is important. Anything that brings us pain must be wept out. It is unlikely that we will be able to let go of someone if we do not accept this fact in its entirety. This person is no longer with you, he is no longer your person. Forever and ever. Pay back whatever hurts inside. Don't leave inside yourself. Leave no hope or chance for yourself. Pay back and keep living in a new reality.
Step three: Exit the sink.
Leave the house to meet new people. Your loved one, although the most beloved so far, is just one of the millions of people that exist around you. Look around you, let people near you be heard and seen, give them a chance to become equally loved for you. And then life will be filled with new colors and take on a new meaning.
