Starting a new relationship, I really want to believe that this particular person is truly worthy and suitable for a long and happy life. However, many of us are mistaken and over and over again are disappointed in our chosen one. To prevent this from happening, it is worth paying attention to some moments of his behavior, which are visible already at the first meetings.
1. He speaks badly about his ex. This is a very wake-up call. Of course, each of us is pleased to feel like the best, but in this case it is worth giving up dubious praise. A man's ability to get out of conflicts and relationships with dignity says a lot about his nobility and true adulthood.
2. Shows off wealth. We are all very pleased to be invited on an "expensive" date, but we should be very careful in this matter. Truly wealthy people have no sense and interest in exposing their income to the public. If your young man now and then brags about the amount of his money, this suggests that he is still a little boy who has not played enough of the "tough man". Please also note that this is sometimes the behavior of ordinary swindlers.
3. He obsessively asks who called you. On first dates, this behavior of a man may indicate that you have come across a person-controller. As a rule, these people are creepy owners, and treat their partners as if they belong to them. You can be prepared that you will not be allowed to take a step without explanations and excuses. Are you ready for such a relationship?
4. Pay attention to how he interacts with others. Is he friendly to waiters, is he rude to a taxi driver or a casual passer-by who stepped on his foot? This will tell a lot about how he is able to relate to you and your loved ones in the future. Of course, sometimes people skillfully pretend to be friendly, but if he does not have this "in his blood", then he will give himself away rather quickly.
5. Your companion is categorical. Does he listen to your opinion, does he give him the right to exist? Or does he constantly argue and aggressively insist on his own? Maybe he behaves in this way with others? It is very difficult to build relationships with categorical people, and it is completely unrealistic to find a compromise.
6. Blames everyone for his failures. Each of us has situations when the outcome of the case did not depend on us. A worthy man can only briefly mention this fact between the lines. If your boyfriend convinces you that everyone around is ungrateful and stupid people, underestimating real talent - run! The inability to take responsibility for your life is the first sign of infantilism.
7. Watch how he spends money. It does not matter what amount a person has, the spender will always exceed his capabilities, and the niggardly look for shares throughout the city. A healthy attitude to money presupposes the ability to live within your means: clearly understanding how you will live until your next paycheck, but at the same time being able to sincerely please yourself and your girlfriend.
8. Look into his car. No, we are not talking about its cost now, but about how it looks inside and out. How much a person cares about her, how clean and comfortable it is. On this basis, people are easily calculated who are not able to be accurate and attentive. As a man takes care of his car, he also takes care of his home and his family.
9. Ask him to go with you to a melodrama. Of course, not every man is obliged to cry and be touched by the relationship within the "Santa Barbara". But if your young man sits with a detached look all evening, yawns or even sleeps, you are unlikely to wait for him to show beautiful expressions of feelings and the ability to talk about these feelings.
10. Ask him what he dreams of. There is no right answer to this question. But the man will draw a picture of his desired future, and you only have to understand whether you are on the way with him or not.
