Once you realize that you cannot exist without this person. "What is this, love?" You ask yourself. You like everything about your chosen one: gait, eyes, wide smile, manner of speaking … Next to him you feel the happiest, and with a short separation you shed tears and cannot find a place for yourself. It would seem that everything suggests that this is it, a feeling sung by poets and musicians. But why then are you gnawing at the worm of doubt? How to recognize love? How to distinguish true feeling from short-term passion?
Instructions
Step 1
People tend to confuse two such similar and such different feelings as love and falling in love. Let's try to figure out how they are so similar and how they differ. Indeed, your fate, the fate of your chosen one, often depends on the correct understanding of what is happening to you.
Step 2
Love does not come suddenly. Whatever they say about love at first sight, it is important to understand that on the first day of acquaintance you can fall in love, but it takes time to develop a stronger feeling. After all, love is selective, it should help to understand and accept the beloved as he is, and passion does not see flaws, your partner is so good that he is equal to the gods.
Step 3
Jealousy is a natural feeling for a loving person, but love will never allow itself unreasonable jealousy, because it is built on trust and understanding. “I cannot live without this person,” says passion. “I can be without this person, but with him I’m better,” - true love answers.
Step 4
A truly loving person is disinterested, he gives all of himself to his beloved, he is ready to share his joys and worries, successes and failures. Love is, first of all, respect, patience and tenderness. As a rule, passion is short-lived, it is characterized by ups and downs. A person in love sometimes experiences inexplicable flushes of feelings, then suddenly becomes cold.
