The proverb "Beats means loves" is remembered by many women who are faced with the assault of their own husbands. However, the situation may go too far. And even at the first case of beatings, it is necessary to seriously reconsider relations in the family.
Family assault is unacceptable. And it doesn't matter what was the reason for this. Even treason and betrayal are not a suitable excuse for beating. A man in almost a hundred percent of cases is stronger than a woman, and by raising a hand to her, he is not just trying to prove his physical superiority. He wants to humiliate her morally, forcefully subordinate her to his will. This is done only by the weak-minded men who are not sure of themselves. And they are unlikely to change. There is a chance to save the marriage only if there was no beating as such. A slap in the face, a slap in the face, a strong slap from a man is something that can be forgiven under certain circumstances. But this situation requires serious analysis.
If your husband beats you, don't be afraid to contact the police. Close people will not always support, simply not wanting to delve into the situation. And the guards are obliged to take action and deal with the offender.
If your husband hit you, don't try to figure out right away why it happened and what he intends to do in the future. In a state of passion or intense excitement, a man can be rude, kick out of the house, etc. Now almost any word will provoke further scandal. This is because the husband, if he really loves and appreciates his wife, already feels guilty after this blow. He does not know what to do in such a situation, begins to get nervous more and more, may break loose. Therefore, no matter how much you want to sort out the relationship to the end, it is better to disperse peacefully. The best thing to do is to leave for a while the apartment or the place where everything happened. Give your spouse time to acknowledge their guilt and accept what they have done. Just one day is enough for the partner to calm down and look at the situation in a different way.
Do not be alone with a man if he is aggressive and under the influence of alcohol. If you see that a scandal is brewing, it is better to leave and return when the faithful becomes more adequate.
After this time, you can try to have a serious talk with your husband. Ask to listen to you without interrupting. Tell him firmly that you will not tolerate beatings. And that they are ready to go to a meeting and make peace this time only if he is the first and the last. Ask the man to give the floor. If a man loves, he will beg for forgiveness and will do whatever his wife asks. If not, he will make excuses, try to make his spouse guilty, and say that she provoked him. In this case, the woman needs to make the right decision. If a man behaves in this way, most likely, he will continue to raise his hand to his wife. If you are not ready to endure, then it is better to leave immediately, after the first incident. otherwise, the man can go into a rage, and someday cause serious injury. There are a lot of such cases when women put up with assault and then end up in hospitals. Domestic tyranny shouldn't be the norm. First, the husband beats his wife, then the children. He cripples the psyche of family and friends, absolutely not thinking about his behavior. And this cannot be left unpunished. If the beatings have become a system, talking will not help. You need to fight the aggressor with the help of the police.
