Relationships are one of the most important components of human life, but only a few think that this needs to be learned. It is believed that in this area, learning occurs by itself, as a result of communication with others and their examples. But the result of this self-education leaves much to be desired. Very often, after the first unsuccessful attempt to build relationships with the opposite sex, people do not correct their behavior, do not take into account their mistakes, but simply try to find the person who will fully and completely correspond to their ideal.
Instructions
Step 1
Women do not understand and do not know men, they want a knight to appear who will understand and accept them as they are. Women are not interested in the desires of men, and do not think about what could interest a man so that he would devote his whole life to them.
Step 2
Men think the same way. They do not think about the reasons for this or that woman's behavior, they believe that with their good behavior they will be able to please a woman and receive in return warmth and care. And until neither side understands that relationships need to be worked on, there will be no happiness in a couple.
Step 3
A man should perceive his other half not as a reflection of his mother, but as a reflection of himself, a being of the opposite sex. To do this, you need to stop blaming her with your problems, fears and worries. Then a woman will be able to become a reliable friend and helper for a man, an inspiration in all his endeavors.
Step 4
A woman needs to pacify her pride and not perceive a man as a genie from a bottle who obediently fulfills all her desires, protects her from all troubles and misfortunes. A woman must learn to see in a man an independent person, a person with whom she is interested in going through her life.
Step 5
It is necessary to give the man complete freedom of action and the right to decide for himself in this or that choice. In response to this, the man will gratefully offer his help and fulfill all women's desires. It should be borne in mind that a woman is in no way weaker than a man and should not insist on any privileges. Remember that a woman's self-sufficiency is the best incentive for a man to show his love and care for her.
Step 6
A wise woman will be able to help her beloved man grow up and, as a result, will get exactly the relationship she dreamed of. But in order to achieve this, you need to learn to be a woman, and not a caring mother for your man and not a boss for a negligent subordinate. Without learning to be a woman, you can sit and wait for the prince until the end of your days.
Step 7
Remember that the person you deserve is right next to you. And if for some reason it seems to you that you deserve more and better, then you should stop and reconsider your capabilities. Only you can choose how you want to see your relationship: a staircase that leads up both a man and a woman, or a pit in which both will drown in misunderstanding.
