There comes a time when you want independence. In the parental family, everything is not as it should be, and this begins to annoy. In addition, it is impossible to resolve conflicts with loved ones. And now, finally, a plan to leave the house ripens in my head …
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, think about whether you are ready for an independent life? Separation from the parental family is a difficult test for a person of any age, especially a teenager. Now you have to do everything yourself: pay for housing, wash, cook. Clothes ironed by the mother will no longer appear unexpectedly in the morning. And in order to have time to make breakfast, you will need to get up early.
Step 2
If everyday difficulties do not scare you, and you have solved the financial issues, find yourself a suitable housing. You are not limited by time, as when you move from a rented apartment, and you can choose the most suitable option for yourself as much as you need. For starters, you can rent a room in a communal apartment or stay with friends.
Step 3
Try to talk to your parents and other family members and explain your behavior to them. In this case, you will act like a wise and adult person who has made a decision and is responsible for your actions. In fact, in nature, it is so arranged that sooner or later a young individual leaves the parental home to build his own life. If you do not know the instinctive program inherited from our ancestors, then scandals and quarrels can be explained by the poor upbringing of the younger generation. But our innate mechanism begins to work in such a way as to cause a conflict between "fathers and children" and push the "young adult" out of the parental nest.
Step 4
If necessary, ask your parents, relatives or friends for help while you move and settle in a new place. Sometimes the desire for independence reaches the point where pride prevents you from asking someone for help. Remember that when you move into a new apartment, you will not have the soap your father bought, or the towel that your mother carefully hung on the back of a chair.
Step 5
Maintain a good relationship with your parents and family. These are the closest people you have. We can say that truly human relations between children and adults begin when each of them feels his psychological stability and independence. Be that as it may, it is not known how life will develop further. Try to keep the relationship warm and keep the door of your new home open to your relatives.
