You love a girl, have been dating her for a long time, for you she is the best in the world. It would seem that nothing prevents you from taking the next and such a natural step - to offer her a hand and a heart. But doubts overwhelm you: will he agree, will he not be afraid? After all, a wedding is such a crucial step! So how can you convince a girl that you are the best chosen one, that you shouldn't even dream of anyone else?
Instructions
Step 1
Starting a family imposes certain serious obligations on both sides. Live according to the principle "It will be seen there!" - at least frivolously. Therefore, try to do everything you can right away so that your potential wife will have a favorable impression of you. In other words, so that she thinks: you are a serious, responsible, sensible man who you can rely on. Show that you are capable of being a good husband and father.
Step 2
Saying "With a lovely paradise and in a hut!" good only for the tropics, where summer is all year round. In our climatic conditions one cannot do without capital housing. The best option is if you have the opportunity to immediately buy a home, but in the vast majority of cases, this is unrealistic. Hence, you will have to make good money in order to be able to save money to buy an apartment or house. It should also be taken into account that if you have a child, the wife will literally be "attached" to him for at least several years, and all responsibility for maintaining the family will fall on the shoulders of the husband.
Step 3
Soberly and responsibly assess your capabilities (taking into account the possible help of your parents) and tell your chosen one about it. Do not be afraid to "trivialize" such a solemn situation with calculations. It is much worse if, after the wedding, it turns out that the young have nowhere to live, and not for anything. A newly-made wife is likely to feel cheated and bitterly disappointed in her husband, with all the ensuing consequences.
Step 4
Try to make your proposal as beautiful and original as possible. Of course, in simple words: “I love you! Do you agree to be my wife?" there is absolutely nothing wrong, and for a loving girl they will sound like magic music. But, really, it is worth showing imagination! The "weaker sex" is very emotional, one should not forget about it and neglect it. A beautiful proposal made in a beautiful, romantic setting can break the last remnants of doubts and fears!
