Many parents have learned from their own experience that raising a child is very difficult. It turns out that it is not easy to teach your baby to follow the elementary rules of behavior in society. Your baby is not always able and wants to understand what exactly you want to convey to him. The educational process can be a real torment for both you and your child.
However, you must clearly understand that you have a huge responsibility for this little man on your shoulders. In many ways, it depends on you, the parents, whether your baby can socialize. It is important that his upbringing is consistent with the spirit of the times and universal human moral values. How can this be achieved?
First of all, it is necessary to take the following point as a rule. Your child, despite his infancy, is already a separate independent person. Do not neglect this fact. Education should not turn into training a baby. You do not have to adjust his life to your desires and needs. Immerse yourself in the idea that your baby also has its own desires and preferences.
The most important thing is to catch the fine line between permissiveness and freedom of choice. Help your little one learn this method. You can start small, just offer two toys to choose from each time your toddler plays. Let him decide for himself what you will play today. You can do the same when going for a walk or doing household chores. Don't be a dictator in the educational process. Try to stand in your baby's place.
The most effective way to raise children is to show your child by example what is right and what is wrong. An English proverb says: "Do not bring up children, they will still be like you, educate yourself." And indeed it is. The very first example for your child is you. The child learns and learns the world through the prism of your feelings, thoughts and actions.
You will absolutely waste time trying to raise an athlete and an Olympian out of your toddler, lying on the couch. The example of parents in raising children is a powerful tool. If your baby sees every day how you communicate with your spouse, relatives and people around you, then he will inherit this very demeanor from you. Show your child by example that ordering a room makes life much easier and saves negative emotions.
Your child must understand that the lifestyle that his dad and mom live is the right one. The kid should not feel a coercive force, he himself should be interested and pleasant to perform the actions that he sees. If your daughter sees every day how her mother carefully looks after herself, selects her wardrobe, then this will become her habit. Work on yourself, watch your actions and then the likelihood of bad parenting will be minimized.
