Raising a boy is different from raising a girl. Young inexperienced parents, while the baby is growing, should learn how to raise a real man out of him, teach him not to be afraid of his own weaknesses and skillfully use his boyish strengths.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't limit the boy's freedom. Let him throw out energy in jumping, running, outdoor games. Do not force you to sit for a long time with folded hands on your knees or in the confined space of the arena.
Step 2
If the child is crying, do not tell him the frequent phrase of the parents: "Men do not cry." Crying! And much more often than girls of the same age do. The nervous system of boys is more mobile, but less mature than that of girls. When the boy is crying, his irritation, do not rush to caress him or shout at him. Better to switch his attention by mechanical action.
Step 3
Do not scold the boy for a broken toy, equipment, or a broken cup. Also, you should not be afraid of games that, in your opinion, are not suitable for boys: playing with dolls, rolling a bear in a stroller, and more. The desire to get to the bottom of the truth - how objects are arranged, what they are made of - is in the blood of boys. And this interest does not fade away with age. Afraid for a valuable thing - move it away from the child. Let him play those games that bring pleasure, do not forbid experimenting.
Step 4
When the boy plays dangerous games (jumping off the table, running away from his mother in the supermarket, and so on) persistently explain that this cannot be done or that such an action is prohibited. The boy needs clear constructive rules more than the girls. But this should only apply to games that violate the safety and comfort of the child.
Step 5
Boys, even more than girls, need a mother in the first years of life, therefore, until the age of three, try not to send your son to kindergarten, since even a short separation from the mother is very painful for the baby. Adapt the child to the change of scenery gently, not aggressively.
Step 6
From the age of six, the boy will need a father more, who by this age becomes the main authority for him. Therefore, the mother should get used to this thought and release the child from her skirt in time.
Step 7
Since boys usually start talking later than girls, talk to your son more, read books to him, explain your actions or the actions of the world around you. Do not forget to accustom him to the first skills of etiquette, to the fact that you need to respect parents, adults, and not offend girls.
