Many parents think and dream a lot about their son or daughter becoming independent. But when this happens and children become independent, then the old adage comes to mind: "Small children are small problems, big children are big problems." Sometimes the hardest time for raising a child is when the child enters adolescence. At this age, children react very sharply to the advice of their parents, even to their care and affection. It is necessary once and for all to understand the complexities of the upbringing of a teenager and its stages.
How difficult it is to communicate with a teenager
It is very often difficult to talk with a teenager, and indeed to find a common language, because in adolescence, the emotional mood of children changes very much. Parents need to endure any outbursts of adolescent mood in order to remain an authority and a respected person for the child in which he can find support.
It is impossible to regulate communication with a child using certain rules, but nevertheless it is worth trying in order to preserve the fragile psyche of a teenager.
Parental care
Parental care is very important for a teenager. You are probably the only people right now who really care about a teenager, turning a blind eye to all his quirks. It is difficult to imagine what will happen to your child if you do not pay enough attention to him. Communicate with your child on topics that interest him, praise the child for winning another, albeit small, victory.
The teenager is in great need of the affection and care of his parents. This is necessary in order for him to form a full-fledged personality without complexes and fears. The personal qualities of a teenager depend on his self-esteem, and who else but you, dear parents, can raise it.
It is important to understand the meaning of this rule for you and your child. After all, all your actions and words should be built so as not to injure the child's psyche.
Teenagers have a subtle sense of the atmosphere in the family and absorb everything they hear and see. If a mother cares and respects her husband, his parents, never is rude or swears, then this in the best way affects the teenager's attitude. Try to be that smart mother who will help her child, but will not do all the work for him, which will help in trouble, but will make the child do his job on his own or solve the problem.
