It is very easy to offend a loved one. Very often, in a fit of anger, spouses hit the sick person. Of course, repentance comes later. But it is very difficult to regain the trust of the other half.
Instructions
Step 1
You, like no one else, know all the weaknesses of your wife, her complexes and small flaws. You are aware of her relationship with family and problems at work. And sometimes, in a fit of anger, words burst out that can simply trample the trust of a loved one. To prevent this from happening, always try, even in a quarrel, to remember that in front of you is a person who is counting on you, looking for support and support. And if you also take up arms against him, putting pressure on the most sick, this can lead not only to a scandal, but also to rupture.
Step 2
Always think if your words will offend the other half. Do not focus on what is not working out yet. Better help with advice. But this must be done unobtrusively. For example, if your spouse is not good at cooking, offer to cook together. This will make the process more fun, and you can discreetly correct all the shortcomings. And, having tasted excellent dishes, the spouse herself will want to learn the art of cooking and will ask you for advice in everything.
Step 3
Very often the wife is offended not even by words, but by silence. Silence in response to her questions, unwillingness to communicate after coming home from work, etc. Of course, for a whole day in the office, with an exhausting road, traffic jams, you get very tired. But this is not a reason to close yourself off from your beloved. Just say that you are very exhausted during the day and want to sit quietly, leaf through the newspaper or watch football. And then be sure to take time for your beloved wife and listen to everything she wants to tell.
Step 4
Always remember that your wife loves and worries you. If you are late on the way - call and warn about it. If you are planning a meeting with friends, tell me in advance. These simple steps will help keep your family at peace.
Step 5
Try the words on yourself before you say anything. Would you like them? And if a conflict is brewing, don't cut it off. Count to ten. During this time, the fervor will subside, and the expressions will become much softer than those that first came to mind.
