In the modern rhythm of life, when the roles of men and women have changed places, one can find a manifestation of initiative on the part of the weaker sex much more often than on the part of a man. But do men like it? Do you have a chance to develop the relationship in which the lady took the first step?
Types of men and their relationship to women's initiative
A sanguine man is distinguished by a quick change of mood, energetic. So in relationships, he is inherent in frequent drops. Such a man, in principle, can be approached first, if you catch a favorable moment for this.
A choleric man is very impulsive and often rushes from one extreme to another. This type of men is least likely to respond positively to women's initiative.
A man is, of course, a hunter, and choleric people are more conquerors than all other types.
A phlegmatic man is the most suitable specimen for showing initiative. He is extremely slow, this also applies to the development of relations. That is why it is better for you to take the first step towards it yourself, if you do not want to miss your chance.
The melancholic man is an extremely complex type. It is never completely clear what he is feeling at the moment and what approach to choose for him.
Women and men perceive initiative in completely different ways. For men, this is primarily an offer to have fun without a long-term relationship. Women, however, most often do this in pursuit of their good old goal - marriage. In the West, such a manifestation is considered normal, while the mentality of men in Russia is significantly different.
The ideals laid down from early childhood by Russian fairy tales, on which more than one generation has grown, instilled in men the confidence that it is a man who should start the right relationship.
Mistakes not worth making
You don't need to lean too heavily on a man, especially if he is older than you. Your assertiveness will simply scare him away. Disguise your initiative, push him with your actions so that he thinks that this is his decision.
Man is a conqueror by nature. He can write you hot letters on social networks for a long time, in various forums and send SMS and back down, having received an offer to go on a date. So don't be too rushed with your initiative.
Do not take the initiative in everyday things and grandiose ideas. A man should think that it all comes from him.
A woman's initiative can be important if the relationship has already flowed from the stage of "just dating" into something more. Then it can sometimes even be interesting. Try to switch places when doing small household chores, this will add variety. Men also encourage women to take initiative in intimate relationships, especially if the relationship lasts a long time. Men will be enthusiastic about such an initiative.
It is necessary to allow men to show their hunting instincts, as quickly caught prey just as quickly becomes boring. But the conquered is considered the most delicious. The most important thing is to find a middle ground and decide when to give up so that the hunter does not lose his strength and passion.
