Sometimes your best friend gets too annoying. He comes to your house as if he were his own, gives unsolicited advice, allows himself tactless remarks. When it is no longer possible to contain the dissatisfaction, you have to look for ways to break the close relationship with him.
Instructions
Step 1
As you move on to taking radical action, consider how addicted you are to your relationship with this person. If before you couldn’t imagine weekdays or holidays without it, carefully weigh the pros and cons. Maybe you are just out of sorts, and tomorrow the idea of sending a friend to retire will not seem very good to you?
Step 2
If loneliness does not scare you, the first thing to do is to be out of the constant reach of annoyance. It is not necessary to directly demand to leave you alone. However, you may well not respond to night calls asking for a chat. Hang up the phone with the words "I'm sorry, I'm already asleep."
Step 3
Adjust your lifestyle, give up the habit of always helping everyone. Your annoying friend knows about your reliability and uses it shamelessly. Don't lend him money, refer to the financial crisis. Be polite but firm.
Step 4
Do an important job, like setting up a summer cottage or buying a car. Finally, get a dog. And weren't you going to do the renovation last summer? Now your busyness will not be imaginary, and with a clear conscience you can refer to it when a friend invites you to another senseless revelry in a nearby cafe.
Step 5
If workarounds do not help, honestly say that you are tired of communication, you want to rest a little. As a last resort, change your phone number, do not respond to replicas in icq, just ignore the desire to re-engage you in unnecessary relationships. Not getting a response, the friend will gradually leave you alone.
Step 6
Remember that you have the right to refuse communication to anyone, this is not a crime. It is not at all necessary to be rude, but others should remember that you are building your life in a way that is convenient for you and you will not allow yourself to be used. Do not let dubious personalities into your reality because of your unwillingness to be branded as a callous person, then among your friends there will be no ones that you should hastily get rid of.
