Very often couples in love dream of starting a life together as soon as possible. However, a lot of love boats crashed about everyday life. To prevent this from happening, you need to prepare for compromises and commitments from the beginning.
Instructions
Step 1
Decide where you will live. The best option is to rent an apartment. In it, both of you will be in an equal position and will become even closer, equipping your "nest". When moving to the apartment of your beloved or sweetheart, do not try to immediately begin to put things in order. It is worth discussing in advance where your personal space and workplace will be, where you can put things.
Step 2
Divide household responsibilities. In order not to overshadow your life together with quarrels, from the first day decide who takes out the trash, washes the dishes, cooks, etc. It is not at all necessary to divide responsibilities into male and female. Cooking can be done by someone who loves to do it, or someone who comes home from work earlier. The contribution of both spouses to housekeeping should be approximately the same, otherwise conflicts cannot be avoided.
Step 3
Decide whether your budget will be shared or split, how you will plan for large expenses, who will pay the bills, buy groceries, etc. The money issue is often not discussed by young families because of its delicacy. As a result, one of the spouses may begin to think that he spends more on the family. Resentment will accumulate and can lead to quarrels.
Step 4
Discuss the prospect of becoming a parent. Just because you live together does not mean that you are ready to have a baby. However, both should know about this, otherwise one fine day the young spouse may "please" her beloved with the news of her pregnancy.
Step 5
Respect the personal space of the person you live with. The family is not needed in order to "tie" a loved one to oneself and not let go. Agree on the time you will spend meeting friends, hobbies, etc.
