Before getting married, newlyweds should seriously think about what the beginning of their family life will be. So that their marriage union does not soon break up, at the beginning of their cohabitation they should adhere to some recommendations.
Instructions
Step 1
Starting a family life, immediately discuss with your significant other everyday problems that are significant for you, because it is everyday life that often kills love. Agree at the beginning of your cohabitation about who will wash the dishes or take out the trash - sometimes even such trifles lead to major scandals.
Step 2
At the beginning of the family journey, be sure to discuss the issue of holidays and weekends. Newlyweds often find it difficult to quickly abandon their usual meetings with friends, fishing or shopping. It will be right if at the beginning of your life together you clearly decide that, for example, on Saturdays, each of you can talk with friends, but you spend Sunday only together, visiting relatives or putting things in order in your family nest.
Step 3
Now that you have become a couple, each of you will most likely need to give up your bachelorhood habits. Of course, this process will take some time, so tell your soul mate about them in advance so that, for example, your habit of not closing the tube of toothpaste does not become an unpleasant discovery for her.
Step 4
Be sure to settle the issue of the family budget and joint purchases in advance - this moment often leads to conflicts and, ultimately, destroys the marriage. So that your couple never suffers such a fate, it is better at the beginning of a life together to find out from what funds the family budget will be formed, and with what money large and small purchases will be made.
Step 5
If one of the newlyweds has a favorite pet, it is advisable to discuss this issue as early as possible, because not everyone loves animals, and some even have an allergy to their wool. Be prepared for the fact that for the sake of family happiness you will have to part with your beloved bird or cat and find a new caring owner for her.
