It is always difficult to be separated from your loved one for a long time, especially when feelings are very strong. But if you look at such a situation from a different angle, it will be much easier to handle it.
Try not to get hung up on the thought of a long separation. The fact that you will feel sorry for yourself all the time, suffer and think about long days of loneliness, absolutely nothing will change. The guy's service in the army is not the end of the world. It would be much worse if you broke up forever because of a petty quarrel. Think about your boyfriend, because it will be much harder for him away from his usual life and family.
Look at such a breakup as an opportunity to test the strength and sincerity of your feelings. Perhaps this test will make you even dearer and closer to each other. Both of you will understand what separation means and learn to appreciate any moment you spend together.
By being at a distance, you can write long letters that will help you get to know each other even better. People cannot always completely open up with personal contact, talk about their true feelings or dreams. It is sometimes much easier to do this in letters. Maybe with the help of them you will discover a lot of new and interesting things in your boyfriend.
Just do not be discouraged if your loved one does not write to you too often. Understand that you have a lot of free time to write the message, but the army simply does not. And there is not much to describe there - every next day is similar to the previous one, and not every guy can describe his feelings and experiences on several pages.
To make it easier to survive the breakup, you can set yourself some meaningful goal that must be achieved by the arrival of a guy from the army. For example, make your figure more chiseled and fit in order to appear in front of your beloved in all its glory. Or learn a foreign language in a year.
Come up with an interesting hobby, fortunately, that now you will have more free time. Take up, for example, dancing, go to the gym or the pool, take photography courses, learn to play the guitar or drive a car.
Do not withdraw into yourself. Separation is hard, but don't make it worse by sitting at home every day. Walk with friends, study, have fun, and you will see how quickly and unnoticed this year will fly by.
