When we go to the registry office with a loved one, each of us wants to believe that we will not have to return there a second time. We all tend to idealize our loved ones, ourselves, the world, so life often brings unpleasant surprises. Divorce is one of them.
Instructions
Step 1
To survive a divorce from a loved one, you should not look back at what happened. What's done is done and there is no turning back. Do not live only with memories, because real life is happening today, now, and it can be easily missed.
Step 2
Do not sort things out. As many people know, they don't wave their fists after a fight. Now the important thing is to just let him go. Of course, you will not quickly become strangers to each other, but you are no longer close. Therefore, leave all grievances, unspoken claims in the past.
Step 3
To survive a divorce from your loved one, you should not get carried away with a free life. You should not seek solace in clubs and throw up noisy parties. It will distract you only for a while, and then it will be even more bitter. Better to wait a few weeks and gradually enter the life of happy bachelors.
Step 4
After a while, it will suddenly seem to you that you want to return the relationship, despite the pain that you caused each other. But you shouldn't give in to such an impulse. This will not help you survive a divorce from your loved one, but will make the consequences that will only get worse.
Step 5
After a divorce from a loved one, you should not start new novels yet. You will begin to be overcome by loneliness, tormented by the fear of being left without love, there may be a thousand reasons. Ini one of them will not be strong enough to agree to take risks. You are not ready yet. Think about the other person. You will turn his life into a nightmare. You will compare him with your former beloved, make the same claims that you are used to. In order for a new relationship to become a joy, time and pain need to pass.
