Children can cry loudly and be capricious for almost any reason. This behavior can be associated with resentment, anger, failure, or bruising. However, many children use tears and screams to manipulate their parents. The child's tantrums must be fought with certain methods.
Instructions
Step 1
Experts say that children under 4 years old are most prone to hysterics. At this age, the child understands that you can achieve what you want with the help of crying and crying. For example, if the parents do not buy a beautiful toy in the store. The best way to receive a coveted gift is to cry. Parents react to this behavior in different ways. Some begin to scold, while others comply with the requirements to stop the children's cry.
Step 2
Children's tantrums can be figuratively divided into several categories. Each type of whim must be fought with certain methods. For example, hysteria, which can be called "theatrical performance". The most common example is a situation when one of the parents prohibits something, so the child tries to hysterically beg for what he wants from the other parent. In this case, mom and dad must agree not to give in to the baby. Otherwise, the child will quickly get used to achieving their goals in this way.
Step 3
The second type of tantrum is performance in a public place. If a child begins to be capricious on the street, in a store or other public places, then in no case should outsiders be involved. Most often, parents begin to say phrases about "aunts who take the child" or "policemen who punish crybaby." With such a phrase, in many cases, you will cause even more hysteria. The reason is that the kid needs spectators, and if an aunt and a policeman come, there will be even more spectators. In this case, you need to show composure. Silently take the child by the hand and take him home, where you have a serious talk about his behavior.
Step 4
If a child has completely unpredictable tantrums, as they say, "out of the blue", then in such a situation, more serious measures must be taken. This behavior is most often associated with fear or physical illness. If the child is sad, and when trying to talk to him begins to react aggressively to his parents, then the reason may be some kind of pain or a quarrel with someone from his acquaintances. Try to find a moment and ask if the child has a stomach or headache, if he hurt himself on a walk, ask how his day in kindergarten was. It is likely that thanks to the calm intonation, the child will feel your concern and will tell everything himself.
