School time is the most fun, kind time for some and sad memories for others. Unfortunately, this does not happen so that all children are equally well within the school walls. And this is understandable - all the guys are different. Much depends on the nature of the character, on the psychological characteristics of the child. Perhaps the biggest role is played by the participation of parents in the school life of the child. It is in their power not only to help the child adapt, but also to make the child fall in love with school and learn with joy.
Remembering their school years, moms and dads need to avoid any negativity. It is clear that all school difficulties are surmountable, but children's memory is very selective. The bad, as a rule, is remembered faster, and there is a possibility that from all school stories the child will single out not the best ones. Then the problems will not be long in coming. The kid will not feel comfortable at school, expecting trouble every time.
In the early stages of learning, parents should not be too demanding and strict. It is worth remembering that the child needs time to get used to a different rhythm of life, an unusual way of life. The first class means new walls, new people, new demands. And children perceive these changes in different ways. Here it is important to support the child, to cheer him up.
Many people associate school with increased requirements. And even small flaws are perceived by the first grader as something large-scale. Children are afraid to make mistakes in order not to get a bad grade. Against the background of this excitement, the fear of a mistake arises. Parents are obliged to teach the child not to be afraid. They are not afraid of not knowing something, not being afraid to ask questions. The child must understand that he came to school to study. And it’s okay not to know something yet.
For a child to feel comfortable at school, you never need to compare him with other children in the class. The level of development is different for everyone. What is given to one without effort causes difficulty in another. Constant alignment with others, moreover, will not bring the desired results, it will also develop a bunch of complexes in the baby. And it's not worth comparing girls and boys at all, since girls, for the most part, are ahead of children in biological age. It is important to explain to the child that he is the only one, that he is a person, he is unique. You need to positively motivate the child, set him up for good luck. The words that he can handle everything truly work wonders. The main thing is that the child does not doubt his abilities.
We must not forget that a child's life can be fundamentally different from the life of a mom or dad. Study, by the way, too. Therefore, it is not necessary to demand the impossible from the child. Even if it seems that he is capable of more. If so, then with the support of his parents, he will definitely show himself. You need to evaluate a child's studies only positively, noticing even the smallest successes, without focusing on failures. In this state of affairs, the school will not be a burden for the child. It will be easy for him to learn and communicate with peers, fear of teachers will disappear. And adaptation to school will take place without unnecessary problems.
