A man is the same child, only an adult. After all, his behavior practically does not change, only age changes. But it's one thing when a man is a child at heart and childish behavior is manifested only in some little things. And it is quite another matter when a man shows childish behavior in all life situations. Because of this, a large number of problems and conflicts arise.
Instructions
Step 1
Not acting for a man in the role of a mother does not mean at all that you should shift all responsibility to him completely. It is better to clearly define your responsibilities. In other words, something should be done by your husband, and something by you. In addition, there are still important things that need to be done together. It will help you bond. But you don't need to patronize your man. Ask his opinion and express yours to him, explain to him why you want to do it this way, and not in another way.
Step 2
Try to ask your man for help more often. It will be at least pleasant for him. He will immediately be able to feel stronger. And you do not need to be shy and afraid to be a weak woman. Of course, you can do everything yourself, but then why do you need a man at all?
Step 3
You don't need to take responsibility for your husband's actions, both in the family and personally. He can himself find a solution to his problems. Perhaps he lacks the determination that you should give him. In this, imaginary inactivity will help you. You will only experience difficulty the first few times. And then the man himself will get a taste and begin to make decisions not only for himself, but also for you.
Step 4
You do not need to do housework for your man, which he himself is able to do. For this, it is not even necessary to divide all affairs into male and female. For example, if you are better at hammering nails, then hammer. And a man can cook if he likes it.
