Some women prefer to have sex in silence, and some are not averse to whispering something in their partner's ear during intimate games. But with any words, you need to be careful.
Unnecessary confessions
There is a situation in life when a couple living together sins with the utmost frankness in relation to each other. Usually this is inherent in men, but modern women today began to imitate them, without fear of the jealousy of a partner. The retelling of erotic dreams and fantasies, admiration for famous actors and the bodies of Hollywood stars can easily unbalance a man.
You should not remember your ex-husbands and lovers in his presence, emphasizing their masculine solvency, especially if your current man has problems with erection. Also, never admit and do not flaunt cheating and participation in group sex, for example at a corporate party, otherwise the reaction will be quick and may even reach the level of domestic murder.
Too frank impressions are best shared with a sexologist or psychotherapist.
Forbidden words and expressions: what cannot be said
Regular offers to just lie down together without sex quickly discourage them from engaging in it. A man most likely will not understand that you are tired, but will simply decide that he is not interesting to you as a lover. He will probably remember this for a long time and will look for another partner.
If you are really tired, explain it specifically and with utmost clarity.
A woman's offer to turn off the lights, especially repeated ones, may not please the man. Men love with their eyes and they like to look at a naked partner.
The offer to serve yourself and finish with the help of banal masturbation, when your naked partner is lying next to you, can cool almost any man towards you.
Do not praise your partner or call him the best, because this will be perceived as a comparison with the previous ones and your partner will probably not like him.
If you do not want a man to ejaculate in you, warn him before intercourse, but not at the time of male orgasm and release.
Do not bother with suggestions to talk after intimacy, because the man is relaxed and inhibited for a while and may not support your proposal.
Do not ask if a man has already entered you, because he will probably think about the insufficient size of his manhood and this will lead him, as well as his penis, into a state of deep despondency and impotence.
"Come on, well done!" Be careful with such phrases and do not transfer the plots of porn films to real life. What you see on the screen in half an hour is sometimes filmed for days. And few people like to obey commands.
"Is it all already?" - such a phrase is capable of morally killing any man, because he decides that he has tried in vain for you.
Do not ask if he loves you, and whether you will be together, because it just throws off the rhythm, and it is possible that you want to run away as soon as possible, taking things in an armful. Conduct such conversations outside the bedroom.
If you are screaming during sex and strangers can hear you, try to do it in a pillow, otherwise the man may be embarrassed.
