It is believed that within a month after the wedding, sexual interest in the chosen one disappears. Many of us have watched films about the lives of people in "sexless" marriages. There, the two halves resemble a brother and sister.
After watching such pictures, the overwhelming majority of people may have a question as to how to maintain love during the period of life together.
In this regard, the following can be said. The sexual interest of the two halves should not disappear at all. Attraction simply cannot disappear altogether.
If the intensity of feelings changes over time, then this is quite natural. However, sometimes there is cooling. After a certain period of time, the attraction again makes itself felt. A complete break in sex is not considered normal.
"Marriage is the end of lovemaking." Does this phrase cause sadness? Many people say that the night after the wedding is the peak of pleasure, after which the attraction subsides significantly.
What is the reason for this?
The fact is that the fair sex after the marriage gradually stops caring for herself. If her dress is torn or a heel on her shoes flies off, then she postpones the repair of things to a later date.
In addition, she, as a rule, already follows the skin of the face less. The husband most often sees his wife in a shabby robe. Plus, she often avoids lovemaking. “We are officially married! All the same, he will not go anywhere from me!"
What could indicate cooling?
If you want your intimate relationship to be long-lasting, you must learn to identify signs of cooling.
What should be thought-provoking information?
Instead of making love, you both pick up books or watch TV. Before you go to bed, you don't talk anymore.
Each of you is busy with your own thoughts. Conflicts arise between you every now and then over trifles. If you have these symptoms, you should start working on yourself.
What to do if cooling occurs?
If it seems to you that you and your husband are no longer as close as before, then you need to think about what might be the reason for this. At the same time, it is not necessary that it may be that the spouse has a mistress. In most cases, the reason lies with the spouses themselves.
Did you both have decreased libido? This usually indicates that a man and a woman are doing something wrong. You should not exclude the fact that you constantly feel comfortable. “Why do we need to do something? After all, we already have a stable relationship!"
What can you advise? Make your senses fresh again. Try to revive the old passion. To solve the problem described, you need to have a creative approach. Don't "lock up" your fantasy! And then you will again with awe await free time to make love to your husband.
