Once again, the thought occurs to you that your husband is not satisfied with family relationships. Every day you find confirmation of your assumptions, but at the same time you do not intend to lose your spouse at all. In this case, it is worth changing the situation in the most concrete way.
Instructions
Step 1
Keep in mind that people change with age. The inner growth of a person, his priorities and values can radically change the attitude towards life, women, family. Therefore, the problem of maintaining and strengthening a marriage does not depend only on your conclusions and actions. You are not in the right and cannot limit the freedom of your husband, but you have a chance with all sincerity to show him the aspects of your personality that may stop him and prevent him from leaving the family.
Step 2
Be sure to communicate with your husband. Paradoxically, the main problems in marriage begin to arise precisely because the husband and wife simply stop discussing everything that is of mutual interest to them. Do not limit your contacts only to solving everyday problems in pursuit of material well-being. Arrange joint entertainment that is interesting to both: read interesting books, visit theaters, go to a football match, go fishing, etc. If the slightest disagreement arises, do not allow yourself to be offended and avoid resolving the conflict situation.
Step 3
Mutual understanding takes a serious place in family relations. Constantly analyze the statements of the husband in joint communication, evaluate his behavior and actions. Based on this, draw conclusions, trying to understand what changes may be taking place in the character of your husband, what life priorities are in the first place. If these changes appeal to you, allow you to develop yourself, then you both have a chance not only to preserve your family ties, but to live a life together with dignity.
Step 4
Monitor your health and appearance. Men, no matter what they say, love outwardly pretty and slender women. However, this is often not a guarantee of maintaining a marriage. Maintain the attractiveness of your figure, but do it solely for your own health and beauty. Focus your attention and your husband's attention on the other side of this behavior. Show him that by taking care of yourself, you can equally take care of his health, contribute to his activity and success. This applies not only to sports, body care, but also a variety of intimate relationships, good rest, etc.
Step 5
Create an atmosphere of comfort and harmony at home. Your spouse is unlikely to give up home comfort and peace. Most men consider their home a fortress, a place where scandals and discontent, boredom and confusion are excluded. Therefore, if necessary, make repairs with your husband, fill the house with sunny and bright colors, thereby creating conditions for maintaining your relationship, maintaining and developing mutual feelings.
