Love can work miracles, but sometimes it is so hot that it becomes difficult to withstand the influx of passions. The warm feeling that delighted both at the beginning of the relationship can turn the life of the subject of adoration into a real nightmare. How can you make your partner cool off too much?
Instructions
Step 1
If you are tired of constantly listening to love confessions, and an obsessive admirer literally walks on your heels, try not to lose your composure. The main thing is not to respond to the situation emotionally. Any of your reactions inspires the admirer to new deeds.
Step 2
Make it clear that you respect his feelings, but are not ready to share them. Appear in a circle of mutual acquaintances with a new gentleman, this usually discourages the obsessive suitor.
Step 3
If your unwillingness to accept courtship has a specific reason, publicize it, do not keep it to yourself. Perhaps the man offended you, let him know about it. And none of his assurances of love will change the situation, you no longer believe in his words.
Step 4
Often a lover requires from a lady of the heart an answer to the question of whether she loves. If you have cooled down for a long time, say about it delicately, without blaming an already suffering man for all mortal sins. Be generous. Offer to remain friends, for some men such an offer encourages a final breakup, as it means that access to your body will most likely be closed.
Step 5
Don't accept gifts from someone you least want to spend time with. Even if he studied your tastes and presents exactly what you would most like to have. After thanking, return the offering, no matter how great the temptation is to keep it as a parting gift.
Step 6
Introduce him to your girlfriend, who has been looking for a gentleman for a long time and unsuccessfully. This is a pretty effective way. Arrange a date with them, praise both of them, do not regret kind words. Tell him that your friend has long dreamed of a passionate admirer, and the man is unlikely to be able to resist.
Step 7
And yet the best way to nullify any emotions is to part with the one who gives them so generously. Out of sight, out of mind. It is not necessary to leave forever, sometimes a short separation is enough for the passions to subside.
