Raising children is very hard, painstaking work. Parents raise their children all their lives, in the hope that their child will grow up to be an honest, kind and worthy person.
In the modern world, it is not so easy to educate a worthy person. This is due to the fact that cruelty, indifference, an abundance of temptations reign around. Raising sons is a separate topic. How to raise a boy to be a kind, honest person, but at the same time so that he does not become the subject of ridicule for others, is a big problem. However, it is not only possible to solve it, but also necessary.
It is very important to teach your son to always be honest. Do not deceive him, there should be no place for lies in the family. Accept any truth. Do not criticize, do not get angry, try to understand why he did this. Otherwise, this will lead to the fact that the child becomes withdrawn. He will be afraid to say something to you, expecting criticism or shouting in response. It will be easier for him to tell you "sweet" lies in order to avoid a scandal or another reprimand.
Be sure to develop your point of view in it. Always consult with him, ask his opinion in different situations, agree, and sometimes even challenge that he would learn to defend his position. This will teach him to have his head on his shoulders, not to be manipulated by others.
Give your child a sense of responsibility for the consequences of their actions. He will learn to take responsibility for his actions and their consequences. This will teach him to think before doing something.
Praise your son, try to always support him. Praise - increases a sense of self-worth, develops high self-esteem, and this is a great helper in life. However, you should not overdo it here, because excessive praise is absolute in everything can lead to pride and arrogance, as well as a negative attitude towards criticism.
Teach your boy to respect the elders, not offend the younger ones, and to be fair in any situation.
Such simple parenting criteria can help a boy grow up as a leader, a kind, honest, responsible man. He will always remain himself, without losing his personality.
With all this, it must be remembered that it is parents who are role models for children.
