School years are wonderful! It's just a pity that not all children share this belief. And if your child does not want to study and is reluctant to go to school, you need to find out the reason for this behavior and help the young student correct the situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to your child, carefully find out if he is being bullied at school. Ask about his relationship with classmates and teachers, whether they have conflicts with them, and how often this happens. Talk to your child gently and delicately, reassure him of your support and help.
Step 2
If there really was a conflict, talk to the homeroom teacher and clarify the situation. In serious cases, contact the school principal, you may even need the help of a psychologist.
Step 3
Sometimes poor performance can be related to a specific subject. There may be several options: either the child is not interested in this discipline, or he does not understand the teacher's explanations. Think it might be worthwhile to invite a tutor to help the student learn a difficult subject.
Step 4
It so happens that the child is just lazy. Talk to him about his future. Explain that his overall development and further successful admission to the university depends on good studies. Education and versatile knowledge will help you make a good career and achieve a lot in life. Build this conversation based on the age of the child, the main thing is to convey its essence.
Step 5
Analyze the everyday life of your student. Perhaps he needs a clearer daily routine. Alternate activities with rest, monitor your child's nutrition and do not let him sit for hours at the computer and TV. Sports and outdoor walks are essential for the modern student.
Step 6
Some children need a stimulus. Agree that upon successful completion of the term, you will present your child with a new phone or other thing that he has been dreaming of for so long. Praise your child for academic success, notice even small achievements. Support failures and inspire new achievements. The child should know that his parents are worried about him and sincerely rejoice at his success. This will serve as additional motivation to study, because children so want their parents to be proud of them.
