The child wants to do everything himself, but he does not succeed in everything at once, he gains experience and knowledge gradually. Inexperienced actions can "crush" the desire for independence in the kid, making him insecure, notorious. It is advisable to avoid such mistakes.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not strive to do everything for the child, even if it is easier for you. Teach him to dress on his own, tie his shoes, make sandwiches, and so on. You should from time to time allow him to act creatively, on his own, if you want to bring up a mature and adapted person. Please be patient and do not scold the kid for his mistakes and mistakes. Remember that he wants to show you his worth, he wants you to consider him dexterous, skillful and talented. Go to meet the kid and support his endeavors.
Step 2
Perceive the child as a full-fledged creature, do not take away from him the right to be a person, respect him. His desires and priorities may not coincide with yours, but still try to come to a consensus without belittling your child's dignity.
Step 3
Of course, a child cannot be completely independent, because he is not yet wealthy in everything. Self-reliance is already embedded in it, and it will certainly manifest itself if you direct it in the right direction. Encourage the child to try to do something himself, even if it didn't work out. Demonstrate that you trust him.
Step 4
A baby's self-esteem is highly dependent on the opinions of adults. Parents and older relatives play a decisive role in the formation of a child's self-awareness. But self-esteem is closely intertwined with self-criticism, which slows down the "vigorous steps" of independence. The child doubts the correctness of his actions, can feel uncertainty, withdraw into himself and "run away" from any creativity, just so as not to be mistaken. Patiently point out to him his mistakes, explain where he was wrong, help him form an adequate view of himself.
Step 5
Don't confuse childish stubbornness with self-reliance. Stubbornness is a manifestation of infantilism, immaturity. Teach your child to give in and correct their behavior. On the other hand, through opposition, the personality of the baby is built, his individual traits are laid, therefore, it is not worth completely eliminating conflict. But it is impossible to respond with rudeness to the whims and attacks of the baby, this scenario is destructive.
