You did a pregnancy test and it showed two strips. Big changes are coming soon. Your body, lifestyle will change, and possibly the level of material well-being. But this will happen later, in the meantime you must communicate this good news to your loved ones.
Instructions
Step 1
The first person to know about your pregnancy is the baby's father. Agree, it will turn out rather ridiculous if he receives this news not from you personally, but from your mother or girlfriend.
Step 2
If the baby is planned and long-awaited, then the message about pregnancy can be organized as a holiday. Prepare a romantic dinner or invite your husband to go to a restaurant. And there, holding a glass of freshly squeezed juice in your hand (you remember that you are pregnant), tell the man the good news. You can, with a sly smile, give your young man a pregnancy test if you are sure that he knows what kind of object it is and will not be puzzled to twist it in his hands.
Step 3
Even if the pregnancy was not planned, and you are not scheduled with the child's father, you still have to tell him about it. If you are afraid of his reaction, let him know about your condition by phone. It is likely that at first it will be a shock for the young man. After all, changes will take place not only in your life. He will have to decide whether he is ready to part with his bachelor life, whether he can provide for his wife with a small child. Give him time to think things over. You will not see him, perhaps not a very pleasant reaction, and by the evening he will have time to make a decision for himself, calm down and buy you flowers.
Step 4
The next people you want to share the news with are likely to be your parents. Feel free to talk about your pregnancy - they will be happy to support you, and your mother will be able to give you a lot of useful advice. If you have a good relationship with your father-in-law and mother-in-law, you can tell the news to them personally, no - leave this prerogative to your husband.
Step 5
You probably want to share the joy with close friends. But if you first tell one friend about your pregnancy, chances are everyone else will hear the news from her. It is better to gather people dear to you together and tell them about your interesting situation. The attention and care of friends for nine months is guaranteed to you.
Step 6
Even if you do not like to devote the work team to your personal life, you will have to tell your boss about pregnancy. This should be done as early as possible, because he will have to look for an employee in your place while you are on maternity leave. In addition, after the conversation, with a clear conscience, you will be able to ask for leave to the antenatal clinic, without coming up with a convincing reason for this every time.
