Living together is a responsible decision not only for a girl, but also for a guy. Both of them will have to get used to a new neighbor and a changed life, which may become less comfortable.
Instructions
Step 1
Traditionally, girls move to live with a guy, although in modern society another option is possible when a guy comes to a girl's territory. In either case, this is a very difficult step that can both strengthen and destroy a relationship.
Step 2
Before moving to live with a guy, you should think about what it will give. Do you both have a desire to start a family or do you have quite frequent meetings. Think about the fact that you will come to someone else's territory. It is especially important to puzzle over this issue if the guy lives with his parents. Perhaps the older relatives are not very eager to increase the size of the family, they are accustomed to the prevailing way of life and do not want to let unnecessary people into the apartment. In this case, you will have problems, you will have to constantly resolve conflicts.
Step 3
If the guy lives alone or his relatives adore you and do not mind moving, try spending a week in a new place. Do not carry all things at once, take the essentials. During the time spent together in the same dwelling, you will understand whether it is comfortable for you to eat, sleep, spend evenings with this person. Is he neat in everyday life, does he help to clean, cook. All this is very important, because if you find reasons for irritation in a week, then they will only get worse further.
Step 4
If everything suits you, it is easy and comfortable for you together, transport your things. Ask for a separate closet for you so as not to dig into a common pile. Take your favorite little things with you - a plush toy, a vase, photos. They will help you feel more comfortable in an unfamiliar environment.
Step 5
Remember, living together is a decision of two. This is beneficial to the couple, not to one of the partners. In the event that a guy says that having moved, you will have to do everything around the house in gratitude for living, do not agree. You are not a housekeeper, but a full partner in a couple. Offer to divide all responsibilities in half, let everyone choose their favorite things and be responsible for their implementation.
