Children are open-minded creatures. They sincerely rejoice at everything good and very hard to endure swearing, shouting, misunderstanding. Adults, on the other hand, often do not notice what harm they do to little people with their behavior. But parents should understand that they are responsible for their children. This means, and for their mental health.
Instructions
Step 1
Try not to yell at your child. Children, especially those of preschool age, are very often naughty. And sometimes loving mums and dads, tired of a lot of pranks, simply run out of patience. An unpleasant thing happens: they scream and begin to remember all the sins of the child or even compare him with some ideal neighbor boy (girl), which can contribute to the formation of complexes. If this began to happen to you regularly, learn to calm down and, if necessary, "pull yourself together." Learn the truth: throwing out evil on a child, you will never explain anything to him. Thus, he can only be greatly scared. And in a small head, an image of monster parents will form. Of course, strictness in education must be present. But in everything you need to know when to stop.
Step 2
Be generous with praise. For some reason, in life it often happens that attention is focused on bad deeds, but not on good ones. But kind words mean a lot to children. They help to understand that you need to strive for the best, give little people a reason to be proud of themselves and their actions. And when a child has not only done something positive, but also made an independent decision, it is all the more necessary to praise him. He prepares himself for adulthood, starting small. And the task of parents in this matter is to support.
Step 3
Try to talk to your children as much as possible. You need to understand your child (s), inspire confidence, delve into all problems and take them seriously. Friendship with parents helps to strengthen the child's psyche. Also, do not forget that you are an example, a role model. And any negative action (for example, a scandal with one of the relatives) can negatively affect the little person. In general, a peaceful family environment makes children calm and balanced. Remember that it is within your power to maintain their mental health.
