Relations with a young man sooner or later come to the moment when you need to invite him to visit. This does not mean that you will necessarily go to bed or sit in the kitchen with your parents, exchanging pleasantries, but it is necessary to prepare for such a visit anyway. And really, what can you do when you invite a guy to visit you?
Contrary to popular belief, a girl calls a man to her not only for sex, of course, you can have sex, but this is far from the only thing that two people can do in an empty apartment. If you want to impress a friend with your extraordinary culinary talents, you can prepare a mind-blowingly delicious dinner ahead of time. Going to a restaurant isn't always the best option for a date. If a woman knows how to cook deliciously and set the table beautifully, anyone, even the most fastidious man, will appreciate it. In addition, at dinner you will have time for communication and you will not have to feverishly think about what to do with yourself.
When a blizzard is sweeping on the street, and any romantic walks inevitably end in frostbite, you simply cannot find a better place than a house. It is so nice to warm up here under a soft warm blanket or sit in the kitchen sipping hot tea with honey and raspberry jam. It is not at all necessary to invent something extraordinary. The simple warmth of communication and the comfort of your apartment will always play only in your favor. A man appreciates a woman who is able to preserve and support the inner fire and create a feeling of home even for those who come to visit.
If you invite your friend to your home, it is better to think over the entertainment program in advance. You can arrange watching a romantic movie on a soft couch or play backgammon. Or maybe you are both chess connoisseurs or prefer entertaining board games? If you are sure that it will not ruin your evening, show some of your photos or even children's albums. But do not get carried away - not everyone is able to look at other people's photos for hours, so know when to stop.
But what if a guy invites you to visit? Don't worry or be embarrassed. Yes, male territory is a place where you have to play by his rules, but you shouldn't think that he will definitely drag you to bed or make you dance naked on the table. If you don't want sex, you need to discuss it in advance. After all, a man inviting a girl to him, of course, means just that. Do not be embarrassed or afraid to refuse, because if you are applying for a serious relationship, your lack of readiness will not cause a violent reaction. If a man begins to be indignant, draw your own conclusions.
Do not think that visiting is an event designed to amuse and entertain. If you are not yet familiar enough, this is a great excuse to get to know each other better. If your relationship has already gone beyond frivolous, going to visit each other, you can just enjoy the time spent together and not think about anything else.
