A family for a man is a continuation of his kind. Starting his family, the father fully realizes his masculinity. A married woman certainly shows herself in the first place as a mother. No matter how different a man and a woman are, they want one thing - a happy and long family life. But often even in good families there are crises. The very first is the appearance of a child. What can you do so that disagreements do not lead to divorce?
The main changes take place in the woman. Prolonged pregnancy and childbirth are not always easy, therefore, at the time of birth, the wife already accumulates fatigue, and after all, it will only get harder. Hormonal surges also have a great influence, they are terribly annoying for many men, and she herself is not happy about this. Be patient.
Childbirth also affects the appearance of a woman, the body is no longer the same as it was before. If this is the first pregnancy, it usually bounces back over time. But fears arise in a woman that she will no longer be desired by her husband. In this situation, a man must show his wife that this is not so, that he also loves and desires his wife.
In a woman, irritation towards her man often grows. The wife gets tired, because now she has a whole bunch of new obligations, and her husband, in general, does not help her in any way. Here it is worth starting to reason sensibly. Firstly, a man works all day, he cannot help but get tired, and secondly, not all men know how to approach their child and what to do with him. Here the mother must be more patient. She needs to talk to her husband and explain how he could help.
After the birth of a child, changes also occur in the man. Most of the stronger sex, even during pregnancy, has a fear of losing their wife. Not in the sense that something will happen during childbirth, but in the fact that she will not have time for him. Men also lack attention! Try to talk to your spouse about this topic. Most likely, in the first month after giving birth, it will not work out together. Dont be upset. There is always an opportunity to arrange a pleasant evening together at home. Ask loved ones to look after the baby for literally a couple of hours and spend them together, for example, watching a movie.
The secret of a happy life is extremely simple - learn to understand each other, and in some situations, even endure. Do not pull the entire blanket over yourself, it is equally hard for both spouses.
